"I fought with that particular doctor every day. He asked me to pull the plug every single day.

Other Commonalities: Dehumanization + Perception of malevolence + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"why don't you do anything and everything to help him?... why didn't we try it when we first came in...

Other Commonalities: Denied alternative treatments + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"In in Westchester, at some point when we went there, they wanted us to sign a DNR. I don't know...

Other Commonalities: Dehumanization + Denied informed consent + Palliative care pressure + Perception of malevolence + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"They told me if I did not agree to the possibility of him going on a ventilator, then they would...

Other Commonalities: Dehumanization + Denied informed consent + Perception of malevolence + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"The nurse took the phone from him and told me he's gonna die. If I don't okay. He is was...

Other Commonalities: Gaslighting + Perception of malevolence

"I finally signed the DNR... Yes. They did. He was in such bad shape.

Other Commonalities: Dehumanization + Neglect + Palliative care pressure + Perception of malevolence + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"They wanted me to pull the plug. And I I refused. I argued with them for probably close to forty...

Other Commonalities: Gaslighting + Perception of malevolence + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"I saw that was wrong is well, the pushing of the DNR is ridiculous. And, let's see. Begging for COVID...

Other Commonalities: Isolation of victim + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"And that I should think of his quality of life and sign that DNR. And and then, and I fit...

Other Commonalities: Dehumanization + Denied informed consent + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"I said, you know, why why would we not wanna resuscitate him? And she said, well, sometimes when you try...

Other Commonalities: Dehumanization + Isolation of victim + Palliative care pressure + Perception of malevolence + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"They called me about eleven o'clock at night and said, you need to get here now. He's not gonna make...

Other Commonalities: Dehumanization + Isolation of victim + Neglect + Nighttime emergencies + Perception of malevolence + Pervasive sense of wrongdoing

"We were, our family advocate was requesting that her nutrition be addressed numerous times, and they would blow her off...

Other Commonalities: Dehydration and starvation + Gaslighting + Isolation of victim + Neglect