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Stephen’s Story- Does she need it ?? Transcript

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Timestamp: 00:14:16.820 - 00:14:28.254

About This Clip: Lying or dishonesty. The victim accuses the doctor

Excerpt: "So here, he was gonna he lied to me right to my face. Uh-huh. So that's when I knew this guy, you know now I now I know something's really going on here between me and my wife and all this other crap going on.

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Timestamp: 00:24:11.224 - 00:24:29.650

About This Clip: Victim's family had to struggle to provide care an

Excerpt: "So good thing I brought everything home. So now she's using all that stuff. ... we're, like, wheeling her back and forth to get her some exercise. And little by little, we're getting her on her feet.

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Timestamp: 00:30:45.744 - 00:30:47.670

About This Clip: The victim's loved one expresses a desire to escap

Excerpt: "she wants to die because of you people.

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Timestamp: 00:12:36.804 - 00:12:39.944

About This Clip: Denied informed consent. The victim's concerns abo

Excerpt: "And he comes in later in the afternoon and says, I'm gonna give you remdesivir.

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Timestamp: 00:11:31.514 - 00:11:57.120

About This Clip: There is a clear indication of gaslighting, as the

Excerpt: "Oh, well, your wife is is different because she's got, I think she's got something else like lupus. ... I go, so is he, like, on better medicine than me or less or I can't tell you. I go, I'm her husband. I go, what is going on? And they go, well, we can't even tell you that. I go, well, she's got air going down her nose like at a hundred miles per hour. I go, what is that all about?

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Timestamp: 00:12:40.820 - 00:14:37.529

About This Clip: Victim was refused medications. The victim express

Excerpt: "And that's when I told him, no, I don't want it. And he says, well, why not? You know, this is the cure. I says, because people are dying of blood clots. ... I go, because Trump said to take it. I go, so I'm gonna look at Trump but not you.

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Timestamp: 00:10:28.750 - 00:11:15.595

About This Clip: The victim describes a situation where the wife is

Excerpt: "She goes, they won't let me out of bed. I go, well, how you go in peace? She goes, I got a catheter. How are you taking a shower? She goes, they won't give me a shower. They told me it's against protocol to get a shower. ... I go, then she's just, like, laying there in her filth, and they go, well, she's got a catheter. You know, we clean that up. Yeah. But, you know, that's crazy. ... I go, because this is not right. I go, because everything I'm doing is, like, helping me, and she's doing just the opposite and nothing's helping her.

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Timestamp: 00:22:16.089 - 00:24:04.890

About This Clip: Evidence of neglect and lack of care upon discharg

Excerpt: "And, I says, okay. So I go to pick her up, and they wheel her down to the front of the hospital, and I go to to get her to lift her out of the chair, and she's dead weight, and I can't move her. And I go, what's wrong? She goes, I can't walk. I go, what do you mean you can't walk? And the two nurses there, they go, yeah. Well, she's been in bed for two and a half weeks or three weeks. So, yeah, her legs, they're atrophied. ... They didn't give her no diapers, no oxygen. She's using my oxygen machine. They didn't send nothing home.

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Timestamp: 00:22:53.195 - 00:23:02.480

About This Clip: Evidence of dehumanization and frustration with ho

Excerpt: "And they go, no. We can't do that. We can't touch her. ... I go, you can't touch her because she has COVID? Oh, no. She didn't have COVID. I go, then why can't you touch her? Well, the COVID protocol.

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Timestamp: 00:15:03.245 - 00:15:37.450

About This Clip: Pervasive sense of wrongdoing. The victim expresse

Excerpt: "Day and night, there is nobody. ... I go, well, something's wrong here. I go, because somebody should be getting.

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Timestamp: 00:30:57.910 - 00:34:11.280

About This Clip: Denial of bathroom use. Forced onto a catheter and

Excerpt: "So she goes, oh, but by the way, she still has the DNR. ... So I go, are you scared that I'm gonna give her COVID? ... And so then the doctor goes, it seems mister Dettl, you're a little bit agitated. ... And she goes, I don't think we're gonna let you in to see your wife.

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Timestamp: 00:30:21.375 - 00:30:27.400

About This Clip: The victim expresses a clear belief that the hospi

Excerpt: "oh, yeah. I don't have it. She says, you gotta help me. They're killing me, Steve. They're killing me.